Supporting Families with Math Homework
“I don’t know how to help my child with math homework! I don’t know these new ways of doing math.” We hear this often from parents, right? Often along with another hesitant question, “Is it okay to show him/her my way?”
In my last blog post, I wrote about how my vision for math teaching and learning connected to my homework assignments. Communicating this vision clearly to families in many different ways is essential for a successful home-school partnership.
As a school-based coach, I facilitated monthly family workshops to provide a quick overview of the big ideas in the upcoming math units. At these meetings, we always did some math together focusing on reasoning strategies and communication. Over and over, I heard the same big concerns about homework that I tried to address in newsletters, meetings or individually.
- Will my child be penalized if homework is not done completely or correctly.
- Should I fix the mistakes he/she makes?
- What should I do if my child is stuck?
- There are so many strategies. Which one is my child expected to use?
- Is the standard algorithm acceptable? I know how to do that. Why can’t we use it?
The most important step was articulating these expectations in writing. It forced me to be clear and concise. In a letter to second grade families, Debbie (fellow coach) and I drafted this piece about addition and subtraction strategies. We provided example of the strategies but more importantly, we tried to communicate clearly about our pedagogy.
- Our goal is for students to develop flexibility-approaching computation (addition and subtraction in this instance) in multiple ways. We want students to understand that there is more than one way to make sense of a problem and come to a solution.
- You should not worry about having to teach your child these strategies.
- Students make sense of different ideas at different times.
- No student should be told that they must use a particular strategy.
- One strategy is not necessarily better than another. It depends on the student and the numbers. As students engage in mathematics with their class, strategies will naturally evolve.
Parents should feel valuable and competent in helping their child with school work, in whatever way they can. So to address the question about traditional algorithms, we added:
- If your child uses the standard algorithm, please ask him/her to use another strategy as well.
As I was looking for other ways to talk about homework, I read Van De Walle’s Student Centered Mathematics and his “Ask-before-tell” policy resonated with me. It was clear, concise and memorable! I thought a math homework bookmark would be a great tool for parents at our next meeting.
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Math Homework Guide “ASK-BEFORE-TELL” policy Questions for you (or a tutor or after-school teacher) to support your child with math homework. |
When your child is stuck or comes to you for help, don’t tell them the answer immediately or show them how to do it. ASK:
When your child is done with math homework, don’t say, “Good job -that’s correct” or “You made a mistake! That’s wrong.” ASK:
It’s okay to send in incorrect homework. That is important feedback for the teacher.
We Love Math!!! by Van De Walle |
